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44 Dangers of pre-marital sex you must know

Premarital sex has destroyed the life of many and left many wounded. It involves teenagers and mostly youths who could not keep themselves. It involves having sex out side marriage. The following are the adverse and dangerous consequences of premarital sex: Danger of Sex Before Marriage 1. Premarital sex may lead you to sexually transmitted diseases, like Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, Syphilis, Genital herpes and HIV/AIDS. Danger of Sex Before Marriage 2. It separates one from God. 3. It separates one from one’s ministering angels 4. It destroys prayer life. 5. It destroys one’s love towards the word of God. Danger of Sex Before Marriage 6. It may lead to hurried marriage. 7. It may lead to wrong marriage. 8. It removes pure mind. 9. It leads to unwanted pregnancy. Danger of Sex Before Marriage 10. Leads to guilt and fear. 11. Leads to rejection and disappointment. 12. Tendency of moving from one sin to another. Danger of Sex Before Marriage 13. Abortion. 14. Single parenthood...

Effects of Pre-Marital Sex

Premarital sex is a sexual activity practiced by people who are  unmarried. Premarital sex, also known to be “non-marital sex” is considered a moral issue which is a taboo in many cultures and considered a sin in some religions, but since the 1960s , it has become widely accepted, especially in western countries. Religiously, premarital sex is referred to as “Fornication” which is basically having sexual intercourse before marriage. This is counted as a sin in religions like Christianity, as seen in 1st Corinthians 6 vs9 in the Bible and also Islam in Quran 17:32 in the Quran . The same goes for Judaism and some other religions in which their women are expected to be virgins till marriage. The major reason behind someone thinking of having premarital sex is solely on one’s past experience. This is due to the fact that if one hasn’t   heard, seen nor gotten involved in a situation close to it, it wouldn’t come to one’s mind to think of such because you wouldn’t know anything ...

signs a woman is flirting with a man

THROUGH naij.com The art of flirting is a skill that takes time and practice to master. Women are known all over the world as innovators of subtlety, so it’s up to the man to remain keenly aware of every gesture, every word, and every glance she throws your way. But while we’re not always the most attentive creatures on the face of the Earth, the lady who is interested has key indicators that should be noticeable to even the most Mr. Magoo-type man. Here, we list the 15 most identifiable signs that a woman is flirting with you. This means when these behaviors are not exhibited, you can reasonable deduce she’s not interested. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 We Recommend 9 Reckless Sex Positions To Avoid 15 Secrets About The Female Body ...

How To Delay Ejaculation To Last Longer In Bed

Premature ejaculation can get you down and ruin your s*x life. Learn to delay ejaculation and last longer in bed by trying these simple tips to delay and prolong ejaculation. This will enable you and your partner to enjoy a healthy s*x life. Kegel exercises  - Kegel exercises can help you prolong ejaculation. Kegels are those muscles that you use for controlling urination. So, flex these muscles about 30 times a day to delay ejaculation. Squeeze technique  - Prolong ejaculation and delay it by holding the tip of the head of the man-hood. Squeezing the tip of the man-hood can help control premature ejaculation. Testes  - The scrotum rises as a man reaches climax and is on the verge of ejaculation. So, delay ejaculation by pulling the scrotum away from the body. Change focus  - Rather than concentrating on ejaculation, concentrate on your partner’s pleasure. Combination of thrusts  - Delay ejaculation or male climax by combining sha...

People Who Have This Type Of Sex May Be Healthier

People who are into kinky s*x may be psychologically healthier than those who are not, says a new study. Researchers found that people who were involved in B-D-S-M  – scored better on certain indicators of mental health than those who did not bring kink into the bedroom, reported LiveScience. The study, which was published in the  Journal of s*xual Medicine  in May, surveyed 902 people who practice B-D-S-M and 434 people who prefer so-called “vanilla” (non-kinky) s*x. Each person filled out questionnaires regarding their personalities, general well-being, sensitivity to rejection and style of attachment in relationships. The participants were not aware of the purpose of the study. Despite past assumptions that B-D-S-M proclivities might be correlated with previous abuse, r*pe or mental disorders (research has shown that they’re not), this survey found that kinky people actually scored better on many ind...

How Not to Be Offended By Every Little Thing Your Spouse Does

There are many elements of a healthy marriage. Some of them are unique to your specific relationship. However, forgiveness is one of those things that is a part of every healthy marriage. As spouses, each of you does things on a daily basis that can offend the other person. Husbands – a harsh word that feels unnecessary. Wives – a sharp short answer that could have been expressed differently. These two examples may not be your shortcoming, but take a look at your life, at your marriage. You, like the rest of us have shortcomings. Those shortcomings can lead to offense on either side and in that there is much room for forgiveness. Without forgiveness hearts will become hard and offense will come more easily. That little thing you thought was cute when you first got married will begin to get on your nerves at the drop of a hat. This can lead to a rough married life. Mountains Out of Mole Hills Forgiveness doesn’t have to be hard. It’s a decision you make. The ...

5 Simple Rules To Follow To Be A Great Kisser

There has to be a reason why we like thrusting our face into another’s. A new study conducted among 900 men and women has found that kissing plays a crucial role in human courtship because it alerts us to “hidden biological cues indicating the genetic fitness or desirability of a potential mate”. And here are the rules: Check your breath We know, discussing hygiene takes the punch out of passion, but this is elementary. If your mouth smells foul, you’ve lost round one even before you’ve begun. Which is why you have toothbrushes, mouthwash gargles and mint chewing gum. Keep your teeth, gums and breath healthy. While this applies to both sexes, it’s especially vital for men, because research has proved that women depend on taste and smell in mate evaluation. Judge timing Circumstance is a player, and context is key. Pick the right moment. Is your partner keen to kiss you too? Will they allow you into their personal...

3 Qualities Men Can Not Just Ignore in Women

A Woman Who Smiles (more powerful than you might realize) A woman who smiles makes it easier for a man to approach her by conveying an attitude of confidence, warmth and playfulness. Since many women are fearful of giving men the wrong impression, they frequently guard their smiles. If the only knew that smiling is one of the things men can’t resist. While this approach is safer, it inadvertently sends the wrong message that she is someone who is overly cautious because she has been hurt. In addition, smiling is a sign of acceptance. Men often need some signal that it is safe to approach a woman before they’re willing to risk introducing themselves (unless they are intoxicated). A Woman Who Listens (instead of dominating the conversation) Women are generally perceived as rarely really listening to men, at least not beyond a few minutes. Most of the time, a few minutes is all men really need. But since most men hate to be rejected, it is easier for them to keep...

10 Lessons You Learned in Pre-School that Also Apply to Marriage

Coming up with a plan is a life lesson in general. But it also applies so well to marriage specifically. Did you come up with a plan before you were married? Chances are, you had a plan and even some learned lessons about marriage long before you ever walked down the aisle. Chances are, you learned a lot of lessons about marriage when you were in pre-school. Here are 10 lessons you probably learned in pre-school about marriage. 1. Have patience. You can’t always get what you want, whenever you want it. Sometimes you have to wait your turn. In marriage, your patience is strengthened because it’s no longer just about you. It can’t always be your way or the highway. Marriage will test your patience over and over again. In marriage, you have to embrace imperfection. There will be plenty of messes along the way, but it can always be cleaned up when working together as a team. 2. You Don’t Have to Be Perfect. In pre-school, we learn that it’s ok to color outsid...

10 Reasons Why You Should Not Have s*x Before Marriage

In what is fast becoming a very s*xual world, one might wonder if there still the need for abstinence. Here are 10 reasons to wait till marriage. 1. s*x is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly. Like atomic power, s*x is the most powerful creative force given to man. When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy; when it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. s*x is the same kind of powerful force. s*x is a gift from God to give us the greatest pleasure, to help in creating a deep companionship with one’s spouse and for procreation of the next generation. But if you play with this powerful force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those close to you. 2. s*xual activity for young people arrests their psychological, social and academic development. Studies show that when young people engage in premarital s*x, their academic performance declines and their social relationships with family and friends deteriora...

Don’t Do It, EVER! 5 Reasons Women Reject Men

There are several common mistakes men do trying to attract women, which results in immediate rejection. So you worked up the courage to approach an attractive woman and start a conversation. But as soon as you opened your mouth, she found a reason to get away from you. Bad point: it might because you are doing something wrong. Good point: you can fix it! Here are five common reasons why women reject men. 1. You are having bad breath Although the right words may be coming out of your mouth, bad breath may be what’s turning the ladies off. Bad breath is one of the biggest turnoffs you can display to the opposite s*x. If you have foul breath no matter how rich you are or drive a fancy sports car, women will avoid you at all times. 2. You are too aggressive Women don’t like it when a man they have just met insists on touching her too often. You’d better not touch a woman if you just met her. Ladies prefer cool, calm, gentle and well-mannered men. When you a...

20 Dirty Questions To Ask A Girl And Turn Her On

Want to seduce a girl with words? Use these 20 dirty questions to ask a girl over text and you can make her do all the sexy, dirty talking for you!  By Gerry Sanders Girls play hard to get almost all the time.It’s a good thing though, or you wouldn’t really think she’s worth the effort. But sometimes, it’s easier to turn on a girl than date her. When it comes to dating a girl, she’d instinctively know you’re hitting on her. If you discreetly warm her up to your flirty touches, you’ll see that seducing a girl can be rather easy if she thinks you’re a great guy. If you know how to be discreet, you can make a girl fall for you or even turn her on in just a few conversations. But here, we’ll get to seducing a girl with just 20 simple questions, preferably via texts. Dirty questions to ask a girl and make her wet It’s easy to ask these 20 questions when you’re sitting with her, but if she feels uncomfortable or believes you’re trying too hard or going too...

8 Top Signs She Wants To Be Your Lover!!

8 Top Signs She Wants To Be Your Lover!! If a girl loves you, here are the some signals she gives you. 1. She stares at you more often: There is a way she looks at you that makes you read her mind. You will constantly catch her staring at you. She would always want to maintain a physical eye contact. Aside making contact,watch the way she plays with her hair or body in your presence. Sometimes she becomes when you catch her starring. 2. She often wants to talk to you: people tend to share emotional issues with people they are close to. When a girl likes you,she will constantly want to share her thoughts with you. She would make you her friend. She confides in you more and expect you to listen and advise her. When you call her phone, she would gladly pick up with joy and you will feel it in her voice that she is happy. Even when you don’t call,she will constantly call you to ask everything about your day. 3. She would be extra nice with you: Girls get very pisse...

4 Tips To Welcome Your Spouse After A Long Day!!!

Leaving the family and going to work for eight hours a day can feel thankless and draining. Here are a few tips to help make your spouse’s evenings at home more relaxing and enjoyable. Time is precious; you never know how much or how little you have while on this earth. Make the time you spend with your spouse meaningful, cheerful, and exciting. If they are at work for eight or nine hours a day, then by the time they get home, they may only have a few hours left before going to bed. That doesn’t give you much time with them, so concentrate on making every moment meaningful. Here are five tips that will help you show your appreciation for all that your working spouse does for you and your family. 1. Greet them with a smile. Usually as a spouse drives home from work they visualize being greeted by their lovely, happy companion. How disappointing to be greeted instead by a whimpering, complaining, frowning grouch! The first fifteen minutes when your spouse arrives h...

10 Ways To Improve Your Relationship

Relationships and marriage are not easy. When you've seen people who make it together for long, you know you are looking at two people who have fought, compromised, and stayed committed to one another through a lot. There's a lot to be learned from these people. But relationships don't fail from big problems, at least not all the time. Very often, people end up splitting over the small things, especially once the small things add up. With this in mind, here are 10 important ways you can improve your relationship with your significant other: Apologize when you are wrong : Forget pride. If you realize you are wrong in a fight, admit it and say you are sorry. It will make a world of difference in terms of staying close. Imagine the other person's gone during a fight : There is no better way to stop a fight than to imagine losing or missing the other person. That sadness? That tightness in your chest? That's the love you feel for them. Laugh more : This is ...

5 Best Tricks To Catch A Cheating Partner!!!

According to a leading internet divorce and separation resource website- 50-60% of committed men and 45-50% of committed women engage in extramarital affairs at some point in their relationships. No, we are not trying to scare you by these statistics, but just making you more aware of certain facts. We all know that a strong relationship is based on love, trust and understanding. However, there may have been occasions, where you felt that your spouse was hiding things from you. Does that mean, he/she is cheating on you? Follow these tricks to get the right clues to your question. 1. Put on your ‘Thinking Cap’ You asked your partner a simple question ‘Why he/she comes late at home? And, there comes the most elaborate reply on it. Not just this, they are also ready with a solid alibi, with friends to back them up on this. Just Think, why your partner is trying to prove innocence over something so small? Also, honest people do not need their colleagues or friends ...

What The Bible Says About Orál Sex

There is no biblical evidence that it is a sin against God for a husband and wife to express love for each other in this way. Even the book of Leviticus, which mentions many Old Testament sé x-related prohibitions and rules for the Israelites, never mentions it. There is no reason to believe that expressing affection for one’s mate in this way is forbidden or would necessarily harm one’s walk with God. Some have tried to make a biblical issue out of what parts of the body a married couple can and cannot kiss. In their minds, there is only only one biblical form of séxual expression in marriage, séxual intercourse. They attempt to defend their viewpoint on biblical grounds—trying to make it into a holiness issue. However, no where do we see Scripture putting such limits on the séxual relationship of a godly husband and wife, even Levitical priests (who were forbidden to do many things). Most knowledgeable and spiritually mature Christians realize that God is t...

Virginity: Why The ‘First Time’ Really Matters

The U.S. researchers asked 331 young men and women about how they lost their virginity, including whether they felt scared, pressured, guilty or regretful. They were also asked about how connected they felt to their partner, including whether they felt respected and loved, and how they felt afterwards. The volunteers, who answered the questions anonymously, were then asked to fill in an online diary detailing any s*xual experiences they had over the next fortnight. They were also asked how they would rate their s*xual relationships overall. In more than two-thirds of cases, the volunteers said they were in a relationship when they lost their virginity. Analysis of their answers showed that those who were most emotionally satisfied the first time still found their s*x lives the most fulfilling. The same was true of physical satisfaction. A better first time also tended to lead to fewer feelings of disappointment, the Journal of s*x & Marital Therapy is to...

The Type of Woman Men Fall in Love With

From the stables of ezinearticles comes this wonderful piece for those of us that may have been confused on the type of woman men are looking for. Enjoy reading… I’d like to shed some light on something that women have been puzzled about for centuries, and that is the type of women men fall in love with. There have been so many books written on this subject, yet most have not delivered the common sense answers I am going to share with you in this issue of Smart Woman’s Guide Newsletter. Without wasting much time, I will get right to the point. I am going to give you 10 personality attributes that men love to see in the women they fall head over heels in love with. Men are attracted to women that have: 1.  Intelligent  – This attribute ranks very high, after men have gotten past your looks. Men love women that are smart, opinionated, and articulate. Most enjoy speaking to women who have their own point of view on subjects and are passionate in discus...

Relationships – Tips to Keep the Romance Alive

HOW DID THINGS GET OFF TRACK?! Often the hardest aspect is trying to understand what the man in our life is thinking. Michael French, author of Why Men Fall Out of Love: What Every Woman Needs to Understand, explains why men fall out of love, and offers tips on how to bring some excitement back into any marriage or relationship. In his book, French presents a fascinating look at men’s deepest feelings, identifying the key issues that can unravel even the tightest bonds, and has even identified the four top relationship busters: Loss of intimacy When a man feels rejected by his partner The quest for validation Which stems from low self-esteem, and a man’s continual search for approval and acceptance The perfection impulse The tendency of men to mask low self-esteem with achievement The fading of attraction When men tell their partners they’re no longer attracted to them, they’re masking the real reason for their loss of interest — that they’re not getti...