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Deciding who should make the first move when it comes to dating and related matters is one that constantly stirs up arguments even till this day.
According to what we are used to, it states that the guy usually should make the first move, approach the pretty lady he has been eyeing and chat her up, get to know her or whatever he wants from her. It’s also expected that in a relationship, it’s the guy who should initiate ‘acts of intimacy’. Its only guys who can booty call and what not but I say scr*w it!

You mean to tell me women can run for president and serve in the army but can’t make the first move? That’s proper nonsense. We supposedly live in a world with ‘equal rights’, well to an extent and women should have a fair share of the opportunities assigned to men. I say it’s perfectly okay for women to make the first move.
Gone are the days where a woman has to wait for a guy she likes to approach her, if he ever does. Take matters into your own hands, if you like him put on your big girl pants and go talk to him, ask him out on a date, flirt with him .In fact it sends a message, that you are a strong confident woman who knows what she wants and goes for it. Pay no mind to the fact that some people think that only ‘whores’ approach men, it’s a sexist notion. Contrary to majority belief, not every woman is looking for someone serious.

If you’re dating, don’t be afraid to initiate anything because you think it’s the guys position, no its not. Don’t wait for him to kiss you, kiss him first. Don’t wait for him to initiate sex, be steps ahead of him. It may be a man’s world but girls run it.
Making the first move isn’t reserved for any sex, getting on one knee to propose marriage however should be left solely to men because the minute a woman goes down on one knee, the man would start unzipping his pants.
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